Bellingar Family updates

This week I decided to post about some of the recent discoveries I've made. They all concern the Bellingar family.

First, we'll start with Loretta Foster Bellingar. Loretta was the wife of David Bellingar, and Mildred Bellingar Strand's grandmother. Before marrying David B. when he returned home from fighting in the Civil War, Loretta had been married to David Cummins. David C. passed away while being held prisoner at the infamous Andersonville prison camp in Andersonville, Georgia. If David C. hadn't died, Loretta wouldn't have been widowed, and David B. would have married someone else. None of us would be here. Looking into Loretta's past, I found another twist of fate that would have sent the family into another direction.

Loretta's father was Archibald Foster.  Archibald was born in New York or Vermont and made his way to Ohio where he married Eliza Ann Mann. They had 5 children together before Eliza unexpectedly died. After Eliza died, Archibald married Louisa "Lucy" Collier. They had 7 children together. Loretta was the second child of that union. If Eliza hadn't died, Archibald and Lucy wouldn't have married, and Loretta wouldn't have been born. What I didn't know, was how Eliza passed away.

Eliza had just given birth on May 19, 1837 to a baby girl. She died on August 21, 1837. Only about 3 months later. I figured her death was probably related to her giving birth somehow. Mothers often passed away while giving birth or just after. Eliza was also very young so maybe she had caught some disease. Well, while researching Archibald I found a newspaper article that detailed how Archibald's young wife tragically passed away. Eliza was sitting on a bed, holding a young child in her arms. I'm guessing the young child was her infant daughter. Lightning struck the home, passed through the house and struck the bed Eliza and the child were sitting on. Eliza was killed instantly but the child survived, marked by the lightning. 

Two twists of fate that if they hadn't occurred, we wouldn't be here today. Eliza being unexpectedly killed by lightning, while sitting inside her house, and David Cummins being held prisoner in one of the worst prison camps during the Civil War.

The next update is happier. Fred Strand recently sent me some old family photos. One was of a large family but he wasn't sure if it was the Bellingar's or not. I immediately recognized a young Charles Bellingar in the photo. I had been sent a photo of Charles and Elnora with their first born son Ray a few months ago so I was sure this was Charles. There was an older man and woman in the photo and the other men and women corresponded to the number of brothers and sisters that Charles had. Going from this, I conclude that it's a family photo of David and Loretta Bellingar with their 6 children. This is exciting because it lets us see a younger David Bellingar and we get to see his wife Loretta for the first time. We also get to see Charles's brothers and sisters. Mildred's aunts and uncles. Based on the clothing and ages I'm guessing the picture is from the 1890's.

Front row L-R: Loretta F. Bellingar, Estella, David Bellingar
Back row, L-R: Edward, Ellen, Charles, George, Jennie Bellingar

A lot had to happen for this family photo to take place. Loretta's mother was her father's second wife. David was Loretta's second husband. David had to survive the Civil War. Charles had to survive childhood diseases. It's amazing how many things had to happen for any of us to be here today. It's truly amazing.

Ps. In case you're wondering, the child being held when Eliza was killed by lightning was also named Eliza, after her mother. She lived until the age of 70, married, and gave birth to 10 children. She lived a full life.

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